Sunday, 12 February 2017

Killer Principle in relationships

Hey, an interesting read for you

I came across a business principle online that ("from my experiences) is a major problem in many relationships today.

The principle states thus "I Love U, U Love Me, U have $$$"
Quoting the publisher, the three must go together in business for profitability
***2 out of three won't work. All 3 must go together. Is there anything of value to gain from our supposed business relationship? This principle sets out to give answer(s) to the potential for monetary gains in a business relationship. Can you pay for my services? Is this relationship valuable? What do I stand to gain? Hmmm!!!!

Consider an emotional relationship; this principle would leave you with questions like
* I love you, you love me, do you have the money to sustain the "love"? Hmmm!!! I have heard people say "how long would the love last with money?"
* I have $$$, I love you but you don't love me. Hmmmm!! Would this give the expected fulfillment or lead to a life of frusttration in a relationship?
* I don't love you but you love me and I have money. Would this lead to a life of satisfaction or a life of bondage?
Note that this is not just applicable to women. Guys too.

Typical scenario
**I love her, she loves me, is he/she a liability? Hmmm!!! It's sad to see that we see partners in relationships today as liabilities instead of potential help meet for us.

One major concern today is how we tend to turn a blind eye from "responsibility" and instead tag responsibility "liability".

How do we manage in relationships where we have $$$ but no love? Would be great to hear from another's experience what it feels like to be in a relationship were you are not loved but your needs are met.

It maybe a good principle in business to sustain profitability and keep your prime customers but is a major problem in relationships/marriages among young adults today.

Lets hear from you!!! 

Acceptability 1.1

Acceptability Contd. Reflection: It is the quality of being accepted or allowed!!!! We ended last post with these thought provoking sta...