Acceptability Contd.
Reflection: It is the quality of being accepted or allowed!!!!
We ended last post with these thought provoking statements.
* It is advisable to define your limit of acceptability in an "ideal situation" and possibly in a "worse case scenario"
* Can we definitively say if we truly possess the capacity to manage the whats?
Possessing the capacity to manage the "whats" especially in relationships requires a great deal of maturity, self awareness, exposure and possibly life experiences as it is said "experience is the best teacher" ("Experience" hmmm!!!!!..... not exactly in all cases as some fall into same mistakes over and over with no carryover knowledge applied).
It is safe to say that "acceptability develops with maturity". Maturity is not limited to physical growth but spiritual, mental, emotional, exposure, experiences etc....
Example:- Single vs being married (as marriage grows, you expand your capacity to allow and manage "whats" as compared to while single and in full control of your time and space).
Take a life survey and compare possibly 5 to 10 years ago to today or past relationship(s) to current.
Define what is not acceptable; slightly acceptable; very acceptable; completely acceptable then and now.
Tekena Dokubo
Reflection: It is the quality of being accepted or allowed!!!!
We ended last post with these thought provoking statements.
* It is advisable to define your limit of acceptability in an "ideal situation" and possibly in a "worse case scenario"
* Can we definitively say if we truly possess the capacity to manage the whats?
Possessing the capacity to manage the "whats" especially in relationships requires a great deal of maturity, self awareness, exposure and possibly life experiences as it is said "experience is the best teacher" ("Experience" hmmm!!!!!..... not exactly in all cases as some fall into same mistakes over and over with no carryover knowledge applied).
It is safe to say that "acceptability develops with maturity". Maturity is not limited to physical growth but spiritual, mental, emotional, exposure, experiences etc....
Example:- Single vs being married (as marriage grows, you expand your capacity to allow and manage "whats" as compared to while single and in full control of your time and space).
Take a life survey and compare possibly 5 to 10 years ago to today or past relationship(s) to current.
Define what is not acceptable; slightly acceptable; very acceptable; completely acceptable then and now.
Tekena Dokubo
