Hello All,
In continuation, lets look at these key words to a sustainable relationship.
Conviction
& Acceptability
Acceptability
means – what is allowed; what is satisfactory; can be tolerated; what I can
live with.
We defined
“Conviction” as a firm position based on your views, beliefs or knowledge
assurance etc. It would be right to say “that conviction aids the process of
acceptability in a relationship” and vice-versa depending on the circumstances
surrounding the relationship.
The
resistance of a relationship to breaking under internal or external influences
or factors is based on the degree of conviction and acceptability. There are
factors (constants) in life that would drive any relationship to the point of
collapse. As it’s rightly said and I quote “No one is perfect” typifies that we
must recognize as a matter of reality that there are issues in every human. We
are to live with that.
Therefore,
your ability to endure the stretch that comes as a result of these
imperfections and external factors without bending towards collapse or eventual
collapse strongly depends on your convictions.
We must be
able to answer correctly the “Why” and “Because” of the relationship without
ambiguity. What are the factors behind the Why? In some cases Why why?
Hmmmmmm!!!
Do you
sometimes wonder why relationships that started off on very good note suffer
collapse?
Keep that
in mind!!!!
True. And another thing to consider is personal growth and patience. We all know that sometimes people learn new things, and grow in their outlook on life, but not everyone grows at the same pace. So a couple can often experience this difference as a "growing apart" or "falling out of love". That's where patience comes in (Love is patient, love is kind... 1 Cor.13)
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